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chiiiiile i love me some scissors, 😉. not like that, well sometimes like that lmao. but not this time. this time i’m just really really fed up tbh. i feel tried & i feel like it happened at the right time bc i wanted to get back to blogging, but wasn’t sure what i wanted to yap about. sooooooo let get into friendship break ups & snipping cords for the long run.

ok, so what happened. i'm long story hella short, i got stood up for a friend date. for a kneewgrow. we/they planned a date for us bc we love oysters & i was finally visiting the city again. (& would actually have time) (no she’s never visited me since i’ve moved) ok so boom, it’s the day of the date, but the time gets pushed back to 6pm. cool with me, give me more time to make my rounds. chile, i let them know im parking around 6pm & they say they’re in traffic but otw. 🤷🏽‍♀️, i can wait a few min & i miss this friend so i smoke a blunt & doomscrolled. maybe takes about 15min, so i check-in again…nothing, then another “im still in traffic” message. bitch ain’t that much traffic in the state! i got me some food & pulled off. oh! i think i called twice, but both went straight to voicemail. i vent (explain) it to my bestie & they lmk im not crazy sooooooooo ✂️✂️!

no time for that bs. then they called the next morning?? i ignored it & unfollowed lmao bc what do you think this is?? who do you think i am??

thankfully i've learned to leave weird right where it is. if anyone is ever confused about where i stand, they can always ask. my number been the same since middle school 😂. no asking everyone else how nadia feels. no stalking my socials, stop it. & tbh im not that scary! i don’t even really block people like dat unless its realllllllllly necessary.

it’s bad enough im constantly asked about rekindling friendships with people that have done me extra stupid dirty, but im standing on business. don’t get me started on my momma wanting at least 2 of my exes to still be her son-in-law chile. this was just an easy excuse to break out my scissors & reaffirm to whomever that im not the one to play with!

i’m not wishing nothing crazy on anyone. i am removing yall tho lmao. you crazy af for thinking i’m just gonna accept the hurt & bs others inflict. that goes for everyone tbh. i’m so tired of it.

i’m fully aware forgiveness is for me & not them…i’ve forgiven most ex friends, distant fam, & exes but im never forgetting nor allowing the same level of access again.

in the words of my fav holy saints,

be blessed😘